Ryan Nassbridges

The Power of Forgiveness By Ryan Nassbridges

From the smallest of slights to the most historic actions of wickedness, any time there is a trace of evil done to another, one expects some sort of retaliation. The human instinct is to fire back, repaying the aggressor for all they have done. To bottle this injustice inside boils one to the core, as the desire for revenge oftentimes simply overpowers all else. Throughout history the masses have succumbed to this rage, striking back with a sense of honor and righteousness, in turn leaving a greater trail of misery and bloodshed along the way. The cycle never ends, and amidst the emotional onslaught it becomes impossible to see clearly, as both parties continue to swing blindly at one another. It seems unstoppable-this force of nature, however one simple word has the power to overcome, conquer, and vanquish all strife and hostility: forgiveness. To forgive is to set free, not just the other, but also oneself. Complete forgiveness washes even the cruelest of offenses away, enabling fresh starts and new beginnings. This simple deed transforms the hearts, minds, and lives of all, restoring peace and joy in the individual as well as the world.

Without freedom there can be no true life, as chains of restraint squander the very essence of what it means to live. Hatred and contempt towards another do not simply effect the opposition, but ensnare their possessor with an all-consuming, quality of existence destroying passion of evil. The burden is immense, and will continue to suffocate one’s breath of life until the spirit of forgiveness is ushered in and liberates the captured. From ancient scriptures across multiple faiths to modern day advocates such as Ryan Nassbridges, it is believed that forgiveness has the power to heal, restore, and invigorate, for only through freedom can the fullness of life wholly reveal itself.

Since the beginning of time the inability to forgive has caused an unimaginable depth of anguish and death. Regardless of culture or civilization, class or rank, each and every man and woman faces moments in life where they must choose. Deep in the conscience of all there rests a voice of tranquility and restraint, however the burning thirst for revenge often silences that voice into an inaudible whisper. As the flesh chooses retaliation, a soundless cry ensues, fully aware that this path leads only to destruction and pain. This cycle of anger and pride has spelled the end to countless, triggering devastating wars of both the physical and emotional. With forgiveness there is escape, as the seemingly unavoidable conflicts disappear, preserving the meaningful beauty of life.

It is often said that “I forgive you” is the most difficult statement of all. The strength and humility required is profound, however nothing compared to the extraordinary power that ensues. Lives are transformed, friendships restored, and hearts are mended through the simplest of words. If one can learn to shy away from revenge and explore the might of forgiveness, the world shall forever be transformed.